[ . . . . there is so much here that lili is having a hard time understanding. because she recognizes the words. she knows what it's like, to want to be seen as an equal rather than someone to be protected. she had to fight so hard to get that, and even now she overcompensates, maybe.
is that what escha is doing?]
... have there been times here when people still don't treat you like an equal?
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is that what escha is doing?]
... have there been times here when people still don't treat you like an equal?
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I think you're getting in your own way?
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[ she's not going to argue this much further with Lili, who she barely knows. :( ]
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.... well, good luck with it.
I hope you find whatever answer you're looking for.